Obituaries

John Arness
B: 1931-09-13
D: 2020-10-20
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Arness, John
Paul Levensaller
B: 1929-11-28
D: 2020-10-14
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Levensaller, Paul
James Martin
B: 1956-05-20
D: 2020-10-14
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Martin, James
Lowell Smith
B: 1934-11-09
D: 2020-10-11
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Smith, Lowell
Henry Rowe
D: 2020-10-09
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Rowe, Henry
Jane Harlow
B: 1930-10-24
D: 2020-10-02
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Harlow, Jane
Donald McCullough
D: 2020-09-29
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McCullough, Donald
Janet Morton
B: 1956-01-18
D: 2020-09-28
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Morton, Janet
Philip Cohen
D: 2020-09-26
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Cohen, Philip
Jean Miller
B: 1926-01-24
D: 2020-09-25
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Miller, Jean
Robert Conrad
D: 2020-09-24
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Conrad, Robert
Charles Vanner
B: 1952-02-10
D: 2020-09-22
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Vanner, Charles
Thelma Ripley
B: 1933-04-06
D: 2020-09-21
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Ripley, Thelma
John Druce
D: 2020-09-16
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Druce, John
Charles Bowden
B: 1933-05-09
D: 2020-09-14
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Bowden, Charles
Raymond Dinsmore
B: 1923-08-24
D: 2020-09-11
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Dinsmore, Raymond
Johanna Demers
D: 2020-09-11
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Demers, Johanna
Michelle Creamer
B: 1963-12-27
D: 2020-09-02
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Creamer, Michelle
Richard Kirkpatrick
B: 1946-08-04
D: 2020-09-02
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Kirkpatrick, Richard
Christopher Anderson
B: 1962-01-22
D: 2020-09-02
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Anderson, Christopher
Edward Hackett
B: 1956-06-28
D: 2020-08-31
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Hackett, Edward

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The death of a loved one is life's most painful event. People's reactions to death remain one of society's least understood and most "off-limits" topics for discussion. Oftentimes, grievers feel totally alone in dealing with their pain, loneliness, and isolation.

Grief is a natural emotion that follows death of someone dear to you; and to one degree or another, it hurts. It is like an open wound which must heal.

At times, it can seem as if this healing will never happen. But, sometimes the healing process can take much less time than we have been led to believe. Grieving is purely an individual experience.

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The ultimate goal of grief and mourning is to take you beyond your initial reactions to the loss. The therapeutic purpose of grief and mourning is to get you to the place where you can live with the loss in a healthy way. To do this, you have to make some necessary changes in your life, including:

1. Changing your relationship with your loved one—recognizing he or she is now gone and developing new ways of relating to him or her. Take comfort in knowing your relationship will continue - it will just be different.

2. Developing a new sense of yourself to reflect the many changes that occurred when you lost your loved one.

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4. Finding new people, objects or pursuits in which to put the emotional investment that you once placed in your relationship with the deceased.

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